I'm in desperate need of others opinions... I'm 5.5months pregnant and my partner (8months) and i can't agree on anything including bub's last name my 2year old son (different dad) has my last name and his 3.5year old has his last name (he hardly has anything to do with him). I want this bub to have my last name (so both my kids have the same last name) and if we decide later down to track to get married then we can change it's name by depol but he's dead set he wants it to have his last name and since mine is already hifinated doing that is out of the question... Am i being stubbon and self centred for wanting both my kids to have the same last name (to save any hassles later at school) or is he just not wanting to see my reasoning and being the stubbon one... Whats everyone think i should do